Alan and David Osmond – Life Father, Like Son – Living with MS

Originally published on Next Avenue by Sherri Snelling

They say lightning never strikes twice in the same place yet this is exactly what happened to Alan Osmond and his son David Osmond of the famous entertainment family.  This lightning came in two forms:  great musical and performing talent as well as a gift for songwriting but also something less glamorous:  a diagnosis of the autoimmune disease multiple sclerosis (MS).

The Show Goes On for the Osmonds

Growing up Osmond means you know how to be at the pinnacle of the entertainment world – you sing, you dance and no matter what the show must go on.  This was no problem for David Osmond, one of eight sons born to Alan, the oldest of the famous Osmond Brothers who shot to fame along with Donny, Merrill, Wayne and Jay in the 1960s-70s (Marie and Jimmy came later).  As a torchbearer for the Osmond dynasty, David, age 32, has a successful solo career, still performs as the lead singer for the Osmonds – Second Generation, is hosting a new TV music competition reality series and participated in the eighth season of American Idol.

But, imagine if one day you woke up and found you could not walk, you could not hold a guitar, you could not sing because the pain in your chest and paralysis in your body reached from your toes to your diaphragm making it hard to breathe.  This was what David Osmond faced in 2005 when he was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis (MS) and went from a promising entertainment career into a wheelchair.  Remarkably, it was the same diagnosis his father, Alan, had been given almost 20 years earlier when he was in his late 30s.  What makes this story so inspiring is that for the Osmond family, whose longevity in show business is legendary, both Alan and David are not only living with MS today, they are actually thriving.

Multiple sclerosis, which affects 2.5 million people worldwide, is an autoimmune disease that attacks the central nervous system and for which there is no cure.  Essentially, scars and lesions cause interference with the transmission of signals to the brain and spinal cord that then cause the unpredictable and often debilitating symptoms that MS patients experience such as numbness, tingling and searing pain in the extremities, periods of partial or full blindness, loss of sensory function such as taste or smell and even full paralysis.

While researchers feel there may be genetic predictors for MS (the National Multiple Sclerosis Society states that siblings or children of those with MS have a 1 in 40 risk of also having MS), there is no clear connection that one generation passes it to another.  What Alan did pass to his son David is a “can do” rather than a “can’t do” attitude towards living with MS.

“When I originally received the diagnosis, I had tested positive for West Nile Virus but some of the symptoms did not match up so they tested for MS and found I had the relapsing/remitting form of this disease which my doctors believe may have been dormant in my system but was triggered by the virus,” says David.  “I was in complete denial – I had grown up watching my dad battle MS and my symptoms were not really the same so I just could not believe it.”

There are four variations on the aggressiveness and progression of MS disease, Alan’s was the primary progressive type, a diagnosis only 15 percent of all MS patients receive.  With primary progressive there are no flare-ups or periods of remission such as with David’s type of MS – which means for Alan it is supposed to be a slow degeneration of the body’s functions.

Originally, David’s devastation took on the typical reaction people have when faced with a difficult diagnosis:  “Why me?”  He relates how one day while in a wheelchair he watched his brother playing on the floor with his kids and wondered to himself, “Will I ever have that?”  You can hear the emotion in his voice as he continues, “I’m almost embarrassed to admit that is how I felt because when I looked from my brother and nieces and nephews to my dad and realized, here is this man who has lived with this disease for 20 years and he has never complained, I realized life can go on and you can find ways around this disease just like my dad did.”

“I have a motto I live by – you have to be TUFF,” says Alan.  “It stands for: Target what you need to do; Understand everything you can about the challenge in front of you; Focus on how to live with or beat that challenge; Fight, Fight, Fight – you have to have the drive and desire to keep living and keep fighting for yourself and those around you.”

Family and Faith

Osmond father and son tackled MS the same way they approach the music business – all out or as Alan says “I may have MS but MS does not have me.”

“I was given a cortisone shot when I was first diagnosed in 1987,” says Alan, “and it just about killed me.  It was right then that I decided there has to be a better way and I started investigating alternative medicine that would not have the side effects of traditional drugs.”

Both Osmonds have found ways to deal with MS and overcome many obstacles and the dire prognosis of their physicians.  David was able to get up and out of his wheelchair with powerful steroid shots that helped him walk down the aisle with his beautiful bride, Valerie, a few years ago.  “I proposed to her from my wheelchair and she said, ‘Yes!’ so being able to walk down the aisle with her was something I just knew I had to do.”  He has not been back in his wheelchair since and the couple now has two beautiful daughters, ages one and three.

Valerie and David Osmond

Father and son embrace all-natural homeopathic remedies and David takes up to 50 all-natural supplements a day while Alan adds a daily dose of 2,000-5,000 IUs of Vitamin D; they believe in using essential oils, such as Frankincense, for aromatherapy and they follow a healthy diet based on gluten-free (wheat-based products) and casein-free (milk protein) foods with limited meat and other proteins.  The strict adherence to an all-natural diet which Alan blends into most of his meals has helped manage his MS symptoms and helped him lose 30 pounds.  Alan also enjoys hydro-exercise – the buoyancy of the water not only takes the pressure off of sometimes painful joints but also helps with balance while practicing movements.  In addition, both Alan and David avoid stimulants such as cigarettes, coffee or caffeinated sodas, which is part of their Church of Latter Day Saints faith, and they believe in the power of prayer and positive thinking.  If there is an Osmond prescription for helping to tame the symptoms of MS it is simply “family and faith.”

In fact, both Alan and David credit their wives, Suzanne and Valerie respectively, with the kind of unconditional love so essential in a spouse when someone is facing a chronic illness.  According to the National Health Institute Survey conducted by the Centers for Disease Control, 75 percent of marriages among those couples dealing with a chronic illness end in divorce – 50 percent higher than the overall national divorce rate.

“There is a good side to every challenge in life,” says David.  “Sometimes dealing with something like multiple sclerosis can make your marriage better, I know both my wife and I have learned more patience with each other through this journey and I absolutely would not be where I am at today in conquering MS without her.”

Suzanne and Alan Osmond

Alan agrees that it was Suzanne who helped him seek the alternative remedies which have him defying all the odds with his prognosis.  All doctor predictions and prognosis pointed to Alan being in a wheelchair by now but instead Alan travels with Suzanne and is walking only occasionally using a leg brace or cart when he has to walk long distances.  Alan says, “It is not just one person who gets MS, it is the whole family.”  That is one of the reasons why Alan created his Web site, TheFamily, which addresses family issues around chronic illness and other life lessons.

Alan and David admit that they have learned a lot from each other through this journey with MS.  David says his dad has taught him to never feel sorry for himself, to embrace both the blessings and burdens in life with a positive attitude and to help as many people as you can with whatever you can.  Alan believes David has taught him what patience and perseverance are all about.

“I know it’s crazy to say, but it is actually a great time to have MS,” says David.  When his father was diagnosed more than 25 years ago, there were not a lot of options but today David, who sits on the board of the Nancy Davis Foundation for MS and attends her annual conferences for the foundation’s Center Without Walls says, “There are eight drugs on the market and several more being approved by the FDA as we speak.  The numerous choices we now have to attack this disease that is attacking our bodies – especially with the education about alternative, all-natural choices that I have made for my lifestyle – are encouraging.  I truly think we are going to lick this disease and the great research minds agree – they believe MS is one of the chronic illnesses that I may see a cure for in my lifetime.” (See more with David and other celebrities from the Nancy Davis Foundation for MS Race to Erase MS Event).

When I asked both Alan and David what are their private passions – both responded almost simultaneously with “spending time with family.”  While David enjoys sports like skiing even though his balance and agility are not what they used to be because of the MS, and Alan loves to continually learn new things and brainstorm on ideas – like teaching himself html code so he can build web sites – both men are happiest when surrounded by family.

As we wind up the interview, David is eager to get back to playing Legos and watching Disney movies with his two young daughters – a scene he was not sure he would have just a few years ago.  He says he wears a ring on his right hand that is engraved with ETTE – Endure To The End.  He says he has had the ring since before his MS diagnosis, so today he adds, “Endure to the end …of the day.”  With his girls calling for daddy from the other room, we say our “so longs” and I wish Alan happy birthday (June 22) and both men a happy Father’s Day.  I laugh as I later see a tweet from David – it says simply, “Going to make tshirts for my girls that say ‘Having MS gets on my dad’s nerves.’”

Sherri Snelling is writing a book on celebrity caregivers, A Cast of Caregivers, and the lessons of love and caring that will be published by Balboa Press, a division of Hay House Publishers in January, 2013.


  1. Sherri Snelling did such a good and accurate job in reporting those things that David and I have in common with M.S.. I hope that those who may have the challenge of dealing with it will remember that it is only a test; that the test soon can become a “test-imony” that one’s marriage, family, and future can still go on and that life is good, even with M.S.. There is a scripture that helps me address this physical weakness which reads, “And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto men weakness that they may be humble, and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them.” Ether 12:27 Humbly speaking, I beleve I am a stronger person for having had M.S.! I may have M.S. but M.S. does NOT HAVE ME! Alan Osmond

    • nanci nelson says:

      I was diagnosed with MS almost 10 years ago. I am now treating in South Carolina for TN at lasermed center. I am from California. I believe Alan knows my mom in Utah, Jan Alder. My goal is starting an alternative, holistic charity for chronic illness and conditions where insurance leaves off. i don’t believe that getting as healthy as one can be is not just for the wealthy. I was in the beginning stages of forming the charity when my trigeminal neuralagia acted up again. What has helped me with MS is also considered alternative. I wanted to see if you guys would be interested in supporting my efforts to help other people who are afflicted with debilitating conditions.
      Thank you for your time, Nanci

      • Sherri Snelling says:

        Thanks for sharing – we are now starting to share reader comments on our Caregiving Club Facebook page on Fridays – we’re calling it “Friend Friday” and we’ll be posting your comment on an upcoming Friday – thanks!

    • Lori Leavitt says:

      Alan what a testimony in faith and love you have shared. My brother in law battled MS for about 20 yrs. Ive seen the challenges he and his family faced over the years. Faith has played a huge roll in our families lives. Even though our sweet Rob had moved on the peace and comfort has only been through our Saviors love. I met your sweet son David at a Glenn Beck event about a 18 months ago and had no idea he had MS. All I saw was a happy, positive and very talented young man. I believe attitude plays a huge roll in your outcome in whatever your dealing with. Thank you for sharing your struggles and wisdom. I will pray for you and your son. May you continue to find strength and peace in your life. Best to you all.

  2. Julie Vincent says:

    I just saw on TV David Osmund who had been sitting in the audience for the Dr. Oz Show aired Oct. 1, 2014. Thank-you for coming out and speaking on how nutrition has helped his multiple sclerosis. I believe we need to be steered in that direction. Sure would appreciate sharing some recipes that you and your dad, Alan have used. Better yet, come out with a recipe cookbook.

    Together we can feel better and the safest approach is through nutrition.

    Thank-you, Julie of MN

  3. I am a Cancer survivor and Alan Osmond is right about thinking positively about MS and putting your illness in God’s hands and are in constant prayer, with Jesus in your life. My favorite poem is Footprints in the Sand. I always remember when we are going through some tough times in your life….when you see Single sets of footprints, those are the times where Jesus is carrying you through them. When there are double sets of footprints that is when Jesus is walking along side you.( I am grossly paraphrasing mind you, but you get the just of what I am saying) So always remember to think positively and pray fervently to Him and like my friend who has MS as well try to think of it as a temporary affliction and that you WILL be healed in God’s timing. Not our own timing. It all stems on faith and trust. Alan and David you are in my prayers.

  4. Serena Maxwell says:

    Thank you so much for this article. It’s possible I have MS, as I’ve experienced some otherwise unexplainable symptoms, and go to see a neurologist this week. I love your testimony, Brother Osmond, and that of your son. I’m an avid dancer (particularly ballroom) and am worried about how having MS might affect my dancing. But you two are an inspiration to me. Thank you. <3

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  6. Sheila Littleton says:

    Dear Mr. Osmond, I write to you today because I was thinking about you and how you were doing. While I do not have MS, I have had many bad things happen to my body over the years. About five years ago, I was diagnosed with Pulmonary Sarcoidosis. It then went to my bones and lymph nodes. I was blessed not to have chemo. Then two and a half years ago, I was diagnosed with a birth defect called, Pancreatic Divisim. I could not eat for the two plus years. I came very close to losing my pancreas and being on insulin the rest of my life. I had the first of two surgeries in Chicago on December 15 &had to go back for more on January 2, 2015. The scary part is, for the past week, I have felt bad again. I haven’t called my doctor yet. Guess I am scared.
    Anyway, I just want to say that I grew up with all of you and proud to say it. The Osmond family has been a big part of my life. Prayers for you and your son, David.
    Take care,
    Sheila Reed Littleton

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  8. Amanda Rivera says:

    I heard David sing on the Believe Again CD put out by Glenn Beck and just fell in love with his version of “Oh come all ye faithful”, so I Googled him. Little did I know that both of you have and are beating the vicious disease that ended up killing two of my uncles. They thought I had it, but apparently I just have fibromyalgia (amongst various other chronic illnesses). I find myself thinking something similar, but slightly different than David did. In the interview it says you wondered if you would ever have what your brother did, but I find myself not wishing myself and the burden of me on someone else. Thank you for sharing.

  9. Pat Combs says:

    Sadly I lost my husband 7.5 years ago to MS. Sepsis due to urinary tract infections. He had to self cath and cathaters were not given to use once like now. I am happy some of you aren’t suffering like my husband did from this horrible illness. We must find a cure & until then relief for those that suffer so. My heart still hurts from this.

    • Sherri Snelling says:

      So sorry for your loss but thank you for being a wonderful caregiver and sharing your insights with others!

  10. Sandy Warrington says:

    what a wonderful testimony!Thank you for sharing. I was dx’d with MS 30yrs ago. We have to Stay Strong!


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