Where words fail, music speaks. – Hans Christian Andersen

As the world watches the Grammy Awards tonight I was reminded of a story about one of my favorite authors whose first love was song.

As a little girl I loved the fairy tales from Hans Christian Andersen, The Little Mermaid, The Ugly Duckling, The Snow Queen. While seemingly written for children, the stories transcend age and even mature audiences revered the chronicles of characters that were resilient in the face of many challenges and obstacles.

What many may not know is that Anderson’s first love was music. He was an excellent soprano and as a young teen entered the Royal Danish Theater in his native Denmark. But as his voice changed, he had to change his dreams and began writing about those whose passion had to find another course. Not all of Andersen’s stories had the typical happily ever after endings but they spoke on a deeper level to readers who could survive even if the spark of a dream was extinguished. It has been observed by Andersen biographers that when Andersen had writer’s block, he would listen to music.

 

 

Music That Feeds the Soul

Although music has been with us since the dawn of time, in the last few decades studies have proven that music as a therapeutic tool can increase cognitive function in Alzheimer’s patients, help premature infants gain weight, encourage autistic children to communicate, lead stroke patients to regain speech and mobility, control pain for dental, surgical and orthopedic patients and manage anxiety and depression for psychiatric patients.

Dr. Oliver Sacks, the renowned neurologist and psychologist at Columbia University Medical Center best known for his 1973 book Awakenings, which became an Academy Award-nominated film starring Robin Williams and Robert De Niro, and who also wrote Musicophilia: Tales of Music and the Brain, testified at the Hearing before the Senate Special Committee on Aging entitled, “Forever Young: Music and Aging,” and issued this statement:

“The power of music is very remarkable… One sees Parkinsonian patients unable to walk, but able to dance perfectly well or patients almost unable to talk, who are able to sing perfectly well… I think that music therapy and music therapists are crucial and indispensable in institutions for elderly people and among neurologically disabled patients.”

The Magic Brain Workout Is Music

Since music is associated with one of the five senses – hearing – which is controlled by the brain it makes sense that we should exercise our brains with music listening to spur cognitive function in the same way we use physical therapy to exercise our limbs, muscles and joints to regain mobility and physical function.

When it comes to Alzheimer’s patients, studies have shown that music reduces agitation or improves behavioral issues such as violent outbursts.  In one pilot program, 45 patients with mid- to late-stage dementia had one hour of personalized music therapy, three times a week, for 10 months, and improved their scores on a cognitive-function test by 50 percent on average. One patient in the study recognized his wife for the first time in months.  Another music therapy study showed that stroke victims can learn to walk and use their hands again.

I recently wrote an article for PBS Next Avenue about a singing app, SingFit, that not only helps dementia patients but many seniors in assisted living environments as well as the family caregivers caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s at home.

And, music therapy is not just used with older patients.  When it comes to those children diagnosed on the autism spectrum, music therapy allows these children to develop identification and appropriate expression of their emotions – music becomes the universal language.  Many people with diagnoses on the autism spectrum have innate musical talents so music therapy can give these kids a sense of accomplishment and success

When I spoke to Holly Robinson Peete, the successful actress, talk show host and singer, about her son R.J. who was diagnosed at age four with autism, she said he loves music and he has even recorded a song.  In fact, Holly finds music a great way for her entire family to connect with R.J. and to enter his world.

She told me, “I think music makes him more comfortable – it is a way for R.J. to communicate without being judged.”

A new YouTube song, Dignity by Anderson and Petty, also helps us understand the stigma of Alzheimer’s disease and how music can help erase those barriers. All proceeds from the song go to the Alzheimer’s Society, the leading UK dementia research and advocacy organization.

Music as therapy is not just for your loved one.  We know that caregivers encounter increased stress over caring for a loved one.  Since studies show that listening to music can lead to increased secretion levels of melatonin, a hormone associated with mood regulation, lower aggression, reduced depression and enhanced sleep.  Using music to cope with these common caregiver complaints can be a welcome relief to caregiver burn-out.

How to Use Music in Your Caregiving Plan

Although the 2008 documentary Young @ Heart, showcased a chorus of 80-year-olds singing Beatles, Rolling Stones and Sonic Youth cover songs, most experts agree that with an older loved one it is best to choose music that reminds them of an earlier, happier time in their lives.

1. Discover the “happy times tunes”: Talking to your loved one about happy times in their life and understanding the music associations with that time are essential.  Whether it is big band, gospel, rock ‘n’ roll, country, opera or blues, find out what made your loved one happiest.  Most older loved ones, especially Alzheimer’s patients who retain long-term memory as opposed to short-term memory, find tunes from their youth the most joyful but be careful.  Music can also evoke sad memories.  One Holocaust survivor in a pilot program reportedly became very upset upon hearing a Wagner opera which reminded him of that era of his life.
2. Engage younger generations: You can help create emotional intimacy when spouses and families share creative music experiences.  Whether it is downloading songs from iTunes, creating a Pandora play list or using the latest technical creation for digital music files, engage your kids in interacting with their grandparent or sibling with special needs to choose their favorite music.
3. Pick the right setting: It may not be as simple as turning on a radio.  The radio can be distracting with constant advertising that breaks the peace of music.  Instead, try internet radio like Pandora channels, or use an iPod or CD player instead.  And, be careful with headphones – some may take comfort in the privacy of headphones while others will become irritated or uncomfortable.   Also, consider live music situations carefully.  For author Gail Sheehy, being able to take her husband, who was suffering from cancer, to a last jazz night out on the town was a gift she will always treasure.  But, for special needs children and some older adults – the unsettling activity of a live concert or band can be frightening.
4. Let your music play: As a caregiver music is your therapy as well. Whether it is creating your own playlist to lift your mood when you have a “down day” or just taking pleasure in watching your loved one become engaged, music can make your heart soar.  Celia Pomerantz, author of A Mother’s Daughter’s Journey, found that her mother, who grew up in Puerto Rico, loved a certain era of salsa music such as Tito Puente.  She created song lists of her mom’s favorite tunes while her mother was in the nursing home.  Celia became enchanted as her mother blossomed into the woman residents called “the dancing queen.”  The joy of music and watching her mother dance lifted Celia’s spirits about her mother’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis.
5. Find a professional music therapist: The American Music Therapy Association (AMTA), a non-profit organization that represents over 5,000 music therapists, corporate members, and related associations worldwide offers information about music therapy studies and a listing of credentialed music therapists that offer services in institutional, residential and private home settings.

Music can both evoke and create memories that last forever.  I close with this heartwarming story from the AMTA web site:

When a couple danced together for the first time after five years of the husband’s deterioration from probable Alzheimer’s disease, the wife said: “Thank you for helping us dance. It’s the first time in three years that my husband held me in his arms.” Tearfully, she said that she had missed him just holding her and that music therapy had made that possible.

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